"I heard James Taylors song "You've got a Friend" the other day and it's got me thinking
"You just call out my name and you know where ever I am !
I'll come running to see you again.
Winter Spring Summer and Fall, All you've got to do is call
And I''ll be there -Yes I will
Cause you've got a friend
Ain't it good to know you've got a friend "
When you have like minded high vibeing friends, life is like the Beach Boys Song ---- Your'e picking up Good Vibrations and getting excitations!
Have You Outgrown Old Friends?
One of the things Sweet Baby James song reminded me of is how people who are aware and becoming more authentic, living as theirDivine Selves confide to me that they no longer want to be with old friends.
They have no common interests and they feel very tired and dragged out if they spend any time with them, Their friends may criticize them or try and get them to resume some old behaviors that no longer serve so that they reconnect and remain friends.
If this is happening to you, it may help to understand that you no longer resonate at matching frequencies. The good news is that you magnetize friends and opportunities at your new higher conscious frequency, so by relaxing, releasing the old and focusing your attention on feeling light, joyful and eagerly anticipating possibilities you could never imagine, the universe will provide. Or you can create the friendships you desire.
Here are some tips to start you off.
1. Become your new BFF
Put on some relaxing music, get comfortable and Go deep inside to find your essence.
Start by getting a sense of it. Your highest consciousness essence is whole and has both male and female characteristics or may be androgynous. Get a feel for its beingness. You may see it as a light or an ethereal form or some sort. Or you might just sense its presence. Some people get a specific scent when they connect with their divine essence.
Engage it in a conversation - you may want to pretend you don't really know your authentic Divine self. Ask questions about its dreams and desires, Share what you yearn for in your life. Listen to its wisdom. Get to know it since it is always going to be your BFF- your best friend forever.
Its always there to support you, uplift you, remind you how to instantly regain your highest frequency if you occasionally slip into more dense vibrations. When you have that friendship with yourself you'll attract new friends easily and effortlessly
2. Attract new Friends "in Form".
Its always great to have a friend who has a body so you can hang out, go for walks,chat and share whats happening. And when that friend is busy, then having others you can enjoy makes life grand.
As I mentioned, when you are resonating at a new frequency you will attract like minded friends. Be open to chatting with someone you feel drawn to where ever you encounter them. It might be at the grocery store or talking to someone you meet at work during a lunch break. Go where people with like interests might be. It may be in the metaphysical, spiritual or wellness section of a library or at a store that sells crystals and incense.
Be discerning, since people who have more dense vibrations will be drawn to your light just because it feels good to be around you. You may be called to send them energy bursts. However make sure you set your intentions to meeting a new like minded friend and keep your focus on that.
When I first sent my order to the universe for new friends and personal connections, I somehow found a Science of Mind New Thought church. (This is different from Scientology). As I sat in the service for the first couple of months, tears ran down my cheeks as I heard that I didn't have to make guilt a part of my life, I could let go of self judgement and that I was worthy. I got up the courage to go to the social time after the service and met people who I wanted to chat with for hours. I took classes and made good friends I heard about channeling of ascended masters from some of the members and attended evenings and retreats,
I also found a great metaphysical bookstore that carried books that I devoured to learn about ancient wisdom teachings, spirituality, and many of the new alternative approaches to life that I later studied with medical intuitive teachers, shamen , spiritual mentors and more.
Many of you reading this will have already studied and taken a similar path. Yet you may still want to find people to befriend.
Another great way to find friends in the flesh is to go on line. There are so many groups and pages on facebook
Scroll thru and see if what they say resonates with you.
In your highest conscious Divine Beingness, I would suggest you rule out lower paradigm sites that talk about problems and solutions or anyone or anything that needs to be healed; anything that wants to fight and issue or disease. If anyone presents themselves as a guru, realize that you have an internal knowing that supercedes the need to search for experts. Look for sites that look at the wonder of life, the joys and fun available, limitless possibilities. I'll list some that I resonate with below.
Once you have followed some people for long enough to know they are someone you would like to connect with, start commenting on their posts or blogs, and add in your views on what they say.
They may have in person local events you can meet at. Striking up a conversation with people sitting near you or during breaks is an excellent method of connecting.
You can even look for meet up groups in your community.
3, Exercise to magnetize people.
In addition to setting an intention, before you go out or go online, you may wish to try the following to attract people with similar interests and frequencies.
- breathe relax and raise your vibration to its highest frequency by thinking of something that results in you feeling blissful. It may be a place or object, a picture or memory that holds only pleasure
- as you think about this object feel yourself expand and feel the bliss spilling out into your field around your physicality
- detach from the object and hold onto the feeling of bliss . revel in it.
- now see yourself as a beam of light, a lighthouse or a search light. Imaging you are a huge magnet and with your beam of light you are drawing in anyone who resonates with your frequency, interests and is open to establishing new friendships and connections.
- You may just focus on calling them in, see them listening to their guides and coming out to the same places or you being drawn to them.
- If you wish you can establish a closer connection by singling out someones unique signature and remotely sharing your signature so you can really recognize each other even more deeply when you cross paths, or you can become friends in the ethers.
- ask the universe for synchronistic event where you will find a friend by hearing or seeing something in the media that will resonate to follow up.
- Be sure to feel and express huge gratitude and release, knowing that it will unfold. Its like ordering thru a catalogue or online. You don't need to keep wondering and rechecking that your order was received and is being filled. Trust it is.
I have found so many like minded people to connect with. I say to them "Thank you for being a friend ... Your heart is true, you're a pal and a confidant. " (golden girls theme)
And I hope YOU will explore that possibility of friendship with me.
Facebook pages I host
The Divine U https://www.facebook.com/thedivineU/ - for people who are on a spiritual path, and want to play in highest consciousness and live a divine life.
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Other Great Resources
Mike Dooley Notes from the universe
Soleira Green Diary of an infinite being in a human world